Any behavior which is considered offensive, abusive, rude, malicious or unreasonable should be reported. Hate speech of any kind towards anyone is not acceptable.
No spreading hate
We will remove any content that promotes discrimination against people based on race, gender, sexual orientation, physical or mental health. We will also remove content that encourages or promotes self-destructive behaviors, self-harm, or suicide.
Trolling is not permitted
We all like a joke from time to time but it's not fun at someone else's expense.
Respect people's wishes
If a conversation brings up a topic they do not wish to talk about, please stop talking about it. This includes but is not limited to politics, religious topics and 'trigger' content.
Do not share personal details
Such as phone number, address or social media usernames under any circumstances. Other usernames may be shared for services such as steam or reddit, but please be aware we cannot externally moderate outside conversations.
Do not post photographs
Of your self or other people. To help keep anonymity, we ask nobody posts photographs of anyone as a main subject.
Do not give medical advice
Under any circumstances, all medical advice should come from the physician of the person seeking advice. Even if you are a medical professional, we cannot allow you to give medical based advice.
This is not a dating app
It should not be used to pursue romantic relationships.
No spam
We do not mind what you post, as long as it adheres to the rules, you keep discussion to the topic, and it is not spam. Spam is defined as frequent and repetitive posts.
No Ads
Do not use a topic to promote any product or service. Topics should only be prompts for meaningful conversations.
Create a topic
After registering and joining a community, navigate to the community homepage and look for the green outline to indicate an event related action. Find a "Create a Topic" to get started. Creating a topic may cost a token (if that community has them enabled), and completing a conversation that you joined may earn you a token. Please email info@confidist.com with any questions!
Join a conversation
After registering and joining a community, navigate to the community homepage and select "Search" to get started. Find an available topic and select "Accept" to complete this action. Please email info@confidist.com with any questions!
Complete a conversation
After joining a conversation as either the topic creator or through match making, you will be able to complete a conversation by selecting the "End Conversation" button inside the conversation page, and then completing the rating. Ratings are used to prevent abuse and are confidential. Please email info@confidist.com with any questions!
Join a conversation with 5 common attributes
After registering and joining a community, navigate to the community homepage and select either "Create a Topic" or "Search" to start a conversation. For this goal, it is easier if you select "Search" as you will be given a series of topics to select from. Accept a match with 5 or more common attributes as shown inside the search match result to complete this action. Please email info@confidist.com with any questions!
Complete an event survey
Take your time and go through the event before completing the event survey. However, if you simply don't have the time and want to voice your opinions early please go ahead. The event survey will be shown once the event is active and will be highlighted in green on the main event community page. Please remember to complete each field before submitting. Thank you so much for your feedback !!!
Join a conversation with a unique person
A unique conversation simply means having a conversation with a different person for the current event. If you have had a conversation with someone in a previous event, it will still be counted. Please let us know if you have any questions or concerns by emailing info@confidist.com :) Thanks!
Username Help
This name will sometimes be shown to others on our site. Please be conscious to not make this personally identifiable if that is your preference.
Profile Attributes Help
Add more profile attributes by navigating to the user menu found at the top right hand side of your screen. Select the profile attributes button and then edit to update. Please send an email to info@confidist.com if you have any questions.
Topic Help
Create a new topic for conversation by selecting "Create a topic".
The "Create" button under the topic listing allows users to create a related topic to the one shown.
The "Join" button will populate topic matches which you can accept to enter a 1:1 conversation.
The "Share" button will allow you to share a link to the given topic for conversation.
The "Orbit" checkbox is enabled after you have at least 1 person in your orbit.
Enabling orbit when creating a topic will limit visibility only to those in your orbit.
You may only create a limited number of topics at a time per community.
If you have any questions or concerns please send us some feedback via info@confidist.com
Listen Help
Select search to enter the topic match making queue!
Please be aware of the community rules before joining a conversation.
You will be shown 1 topic at a time to consider for a conversation.
Your conversation match will expire after a period of time so please be attentive when in the match queue.
If you see a topic that violates a community rule, please select the flag icon to place a report.
Please let us know if you have any questions or concerns by emailing info@confidist.com
Token Help
In Confidist, tokens are a basic currency. See the + and - indicators next to the token icon to understand if that action will have a token cost or reward. For example, creating a new topic for conversation may cost 1 token, and completing a conversation that you joined may reward you 1 token. If you have any questions or ever need a free token please send an email to info@confidist.com :)
New Message Help
The orange envelope symbol on Confidist indicates that you have a new unread message. If you have any questions please send an email to info@confidist.com :)
Related Topic Help
This banner shows the primary topic. The primary topic will stay visible on the homepage while related or sub-topics will be grouped as "available topics". Please email info@confidist.com with any questions!
Join a topic of conversation
Search through existing topics from all Confidist communities including ones related to ongoing events.
Explore the various communities currently active and seeking members on Confidist.
Welcome to the Confidist Community
Confidist.com is a central hub for meaningful 1:1 conversation on the web. The driving motivation is to help users become more informed and appreciative of the entire breadth of human experience. This platform is comprised of multiple communities with their own rules, settings, and volunteers. Feel free to create a topic about anything that is on your mind. Enter each conversation with the expectation to listen and strive for understanding and empathy. Happy Confiding!
If you have any questions about the community please use the options below and a volunteer at Confidist will do their best to assist.