Conversations on Confidist are organized by topics. Browse open topics hosted by other users, or create a new topic of your own!
Have a Conversation
Participate in a live private text chat room with another Confidist user. One-on-one conversation removes social pressures and encourages users to see the human on the other side of the screen.
Discovering what we have in common is one of the joys of meeting new people. We allow users to select from 25 categories of attributes including hundreds of opportunities for connection.
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Click register and complete your profile to get started! Host or join a topic for a meaningful conversation, participate in virtual spotlight events, and invite users to your personal orbit.
We will remove any content that promotes discrimination against people based on race, gender, sexual orientation, physical or mental health. We will also remove content that encourages or promotes self-destructive behaviors, self-harm, or suicide.
Respect people's wishes
If a conversation brings up a topic they do not wish to talk about, please stop talking about it. This includes but is not limited to politics, religious topics and 'trigger' content.
Trolling is not permitted
We all like a joke from time to time but it's not fun at someone else's expense.
Do not share personal details
Such as phone number, address or social media usernames under any circumstances. Other usernames may be shared for services such as steam or reddit, but please be aware we cannot externally moderate outside conversations.
Do not post photographs
Of your self or other people. To help keep anonymity, we ask nobody posts photographs of anyone as a main subject.
Do not give medical advice
Under any circumstances, all medical advice should come from the physician of the person seeking advice. Even if you are a medical professional, we cannot allow you to give medical based advice.
We do not mind what you post, as long as it adheres to the rules, you keep discussion to the topic, and it is not spam. Spam is defined as frequent and repetitive posts.
This is not a dating app
It should not be used to pursue romantic relationships.
Any behavior which is considered offensive, abusive, rude, malicious or unreasonable should be reported. Hate speech of any kind towards anyone is not acceptable.
Do not use a topic to promote any product or service. Topics should only be prompts for meaningful conversations.
Be over 18 years of age
All users of Confidist must be over 18 years of age. Please report any cases of minors or suspected minors immediately. This is for the protection of the users and is in breach of our terms of service. Thank you for your understanding and cooperation.
Create a topic
After registering and joining a community, navigate to the community homepage and look for the text box at the top of the page. Describe a meaningful topic for conversation, and when you are ready hit the "Create" button. Someone from the community will have the opportunity to join your topic for a 1 on 1 conversation. If you have confirmed your email, check your inbox for a notification when your conversation has started. Please email email@example.com with any questions!
Join a conversation
After registering and joining a community, navigate to the community homepage and select "Search" to get started. Find an available topic and select "Accept" to complete this action. Please email firstname.lastname@example.org with any questions!
Complete a conversation
After joining a conversation as either the topic creator or through match making, you will be able to complete a conversation by selecting the "End Conversation" button inside the conversation page, and then completing the rating. Ratings are used to prevent abuse and are confidential. Please email email@example.com with any questions!
Join a conversation with 5 common attributes
After registering and joining a community, navigate to the community homepage and select either "Create a Topic" or "Search" to start a conversation. For this goal, it is easier if you select "Search" as you will be given a series of topics to select from. Accept a match with 5 or more common attributes as shown inside the search match result to complete this action. Please email firstname.lastname@example.org with any questions!
Complete an event survey
Take your time and go through the event before completing the event survey. However, if you simply don't have the time and want to voice your opinions early please go ahead. The event survey will be shown once the event is active and will be highlighted in green on the main event community page. Please remember to complete each field before submitting. Thank you so much for your feedback !!!
Join a conversation with a unique person
A unique conversation simply means having a conversation with a different person for the current event. If you have had a conversation with someone in a previous event, it will still be counted. Please let us know if you have any questions or concerns by emailing email@example.com :) Thanks!
Invite a user to join the Confidist Community
After registering and joining a community, navigate to the community homepage and select "Invite to Community". Copy the provided link and ensure your friend clicks on that link before joining. You will complete this goal once they complete registration. Please email firstname.lastname@example.org with any questions!
Join a conversation with a person from another country
After registering and joining a community, navigate to the community homepage and select either "Create a Topic" or "Search" to start a conversation. For this goal, it is easier if you select "Search" as you will be given a series of topics to select from. Accept a match with a user from another country to complete this goal. Please email email@example.com with any questions!
Type a hidden phrase while in a conversation
After joining a conversation type a certain hidden phrase to complete this action. Please email firstname.lastname@example.org with any questions!
Defeat the current chess champion
Join a conversation with the current chess champion challenge them to a game of chess and win to complete this goal. Please email email@example.com with any questions!
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Profile Attributes Help
Add more profile attributes by navigating to the user menu found at the top right hand side of your screen. Select the profile attributes button and then edit to update. Please send an email to firstname.lastname@example.org if you have any questions.
Create a new topic for conversation by describing a topic in the text box and selecting the "Create" button.
The "Host" button under the topic listing allows users to create a copy of the topic shown.
The "Join" button will populate topic matches which you can accept to enter a new 1:1 conversation.
The "Share" button will allow you to share a link to the given topic for conversation.
Creating a topic within your Orbit (by first selecting the Orbit icon) will limit participates to that group.
Direct conversations are available when selecting a profile within your Orbit and creating a topic.
You may only create a limited number of topics at a time per community.
If you have any questions or concerns please send us some feedback via email@example.com
Select search to enter the topic match making queue!
Please be aware of the community rules before joining a conversation.
You will be shown 1 topic at a time to consider for a conversation.
Your conversation match will expire after a period of time so please be attentive when in the match queue.
If you see a topic that violates a community rule, please select the flag icon to place a report.
Please let us know if you have any questions or concerns by emailing firstname.lastname@example.org
In Confidist, tokens are a basic currency. See the + and - indicators next to the token icon to understand if that action will have a token cost or reward. For example, creating a new topic for conversation may cost 1 token, and completing a conversation that you joined may reward you 1 token. If you have any questions or ever need a free token please send an email to email@example.com :)
New Message Help
The orange envelope symbol on Confidist indicates that you have a new unread message. If you have any questions please send an email to firstname.lastname@example.org :)
Related Topic Help
This banner shows the primary topic. The primary topic will stay visible on the homepage while related or sub-topics will be grouped as "available topics". Please email email@example.com with any questions!
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Welcome to the Confidist Community
Confidist.com is a central hub for meaningful 1:1 conversation on the web. The driving motivation is to help users become more informed and appreciative of the entire breadth of human experience. This platform is comprised of multiple communities with their own rules, settings, and volunteers. Feel free to create a topic about anything that is on your mind. Enter each conversation with the expectation to listen and strive for understanding and empathy. Happy Confiding!
If you have any questions about the community please use the options below and a volunteer at Confidist will do their best to assist.