Create or Join a Topic

Conversations on Confidist are organized by topics. Browse open topics hosted by other users, or create a new topic of your own!

Have a Conversation

Participate in a live private text chat room with another Confidist user. One-on-one conversation removes social pressures and encourages users to see the human on the other side of the screen.

Common Attributes

Discovering what we have in common is one of the joys of meeting new people. We allow users to select from 25 categories of attributes including hundreds of opportunities for connection.

Social Good

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Getting Started

Click register and complete your profile to get started! Host or join a topic for a meaningful conversation, participate in virtual spotlight events, and invite users to your personal orbit.

We will remove any content that promotes discrimination against people based on race, gender, sexual orientation, physical or mental health. We will also remove content that encourages or promotes self-destructive behaviors, self-harm, or suicide.

If a conversation brings up a topic they do not wish to talk about, please stop talking about it. This includes but is not limited to politics, religious topics and 'trigger' content.

We all like a joke from time to time but it's not fun at someone else's expense.

Such as phone number, address or social media usernames under any circumstances. Other usernames may be shared for services such as steam or reddit, but please be aware we cannot externally moderate outside conversations.

Of your self or other people. To help keep anonymity, we ask nobody posts photographs of anyone as a main subject.

Under any circumstances, all medical advice should come from the physician of the person seeking advice. Even if you are a medical professional, we cannot allow you to give medical based advice.

We do not mind what you post, as long as it adheres to the rules, you keep discussion to the topic, and it is not spam. Spam is defined as frequent and repetitive posts.

It should not be used to pursue romantic relationships.

Any behavior which is considered offensive, abusive, rude, malicious or unreasonable should be reported. Hate speech of any kind towards anyone is not acceptable.

Do not use a topic to promote any product or service. Topics should only be prompts for meaningful conversations.

All users of Confidist must be over 18 years of age. Please report any cases of minors or suspected minors immediately. This is for the protection of the users and is in breach of our terms of service. Thank you for your understanding and cooperation.

After registering and joining a community, navigate to the community homepage and look for the text box at the top of the page. Describe a meaningful topic for conversation, and when you are ready hit the "Create" button. Someone from the community will have the opportunity to join your topic for a 1 on 1 conversation. If you have confirmed your email, check your inbox for a notification when your conversation has started. Please email info@confidist.com with any questions!

After registering and joining a community, navigate to the community homepage and select "Search" to get started. Find an available topic and select "Accept" to complete this action. Please email info@confidist.com with any questions!

After joining a conversation as either the topic creator or through match making, you will be able to complete a conversation by selecting the "End Conversation" button inside the conversation page, and then completing the rating. Ratings are used to prevent abuse and are confidential. Please email info@confidist.com with any questions!

After registering and joining a community, navigate to the community homepage and select either "Create a Topic" or "Search" to start a conversation. For this goal, it is easier if you select "Search" as you will be given a series of topics to select from. Accept a match with 5 or more common attributes as shown inside the search match result to complete this action. Please email info@confidist.com with any questions!

Take your time and go through the event before completing the event survey. However, if you simply don't have the time and want to voice your opinions early please go ahead. The event survey will be shown once the event is active and will be highlighted in green on the main event community page. Please remember to complete each field before submitting. Thank you so much for your feedback !!!

A unique conversation simply means having a conversation with a different person for the current event. If you have had a conversation with someone in a previous event, it will still be counted. Please let us know if you have any questions or concerns by emailing info@confidist.com :) Thanks!

After registering and joining a community, navigate to the community homepage and select "Invite to Community". Copy the provided link and ensure your friend clicks on that link before joining. You will complete this goal once they complete registration. Please email info@confidist.com with any questions!

After registering and joining a community, navigate to the community homepage and select either "Create a Topic" or "Search" to start a conversation. For this goal, it is easier if you select "Search" as you will be given a series of topics to select from. Accept a match with a user from another country to complete this goal. Please email info@confidist.com with any questions!

After joining a conversation type a certain hidden phrase to complete this action. Please email info@confidist.com with any questions!

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Select search to enter the topic match making queue!

Please let us know if you have any questions or concerns by emailing info@confidist.com

In Confidist, tokens are a basic currency. See the + and - indicators next to the token icon to understand if that action will have a token cost or reward. For example, creating a new topic for conversation may cost 1 token, and completing a conversation that you joined may reward you 1 token. If you have any questions or ever need a free token please send an email to info@confidist.com :)

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